8 tips to support people with mental health issues

By Ayesha Ayath Aslam

Mental health issues are no more a growing concern but a crisis. Its rapid escalation has drawn speculations of it being the next pandemic.

Educate Yourself

Educate yourself about the basics of mental health, and particularly about conditions your loved one may be diagnosed with; including its symptoms, treatment, etc.

Support vs Help

Oftentimes, we tend to fuel the fire unintentionally. Reduce their stress by helping them with work, and make time for your loved one to focus on recovery.

Listening vs Hearing

Don’t just hear, but listen. Understand and provide support by merely making a safe space for the person to be vulnerable.

Empathy vs Sympathy

Most people detest pity and sympathy. However, empathy is what they seek and need. Put yourself in their shoes and validate their feelings and experiences.

Maintain Communication

Understand that recovery takes time, and be patient. Meanwhile, stay connected without crossing boundaries. Allow them to share as much or as little as they wish.

Advise vs Pressurize

Sometimes, your unsolicited advice may be channeled as pressurizing for those with mental health issues. Provide regular & safe space for them to heal at their own pace.

Provide Assistance

Mental health issues won’t leave on their own. Usually, people deserve assistance. Figure out how you can assist your loved one, in seeking help.

Destigmatize

Don’t make someone feel ashamed of their suffering. One way to destigmatize notions around mental health, is to view mental illness as physical illness.